Memories of your ex are for you alone. Your current beau doesnt want or need to hear about them. Dont rant about her either, and what ever you do. Dont compare both girls with each other. If you dont want your gf to have second thoughts about you. Forget your old flame, boy. We definitely can spill our heart to each other, if we both left something unsaid. I like how our relationship is developing so far. You'll know if it's right, so go with the flow and enjoy the ride! Relationship take time to develop. "Where is this relationship heading?" Nowhere, if that's your attitude. Guys want a gf who's fun, not one who's constantly worrying about the future. He'll see it as major pressure! His actions will tell you where the relationship is going. If things say working, most of the time, the question doesnt need to be asked! Dont tell him you want a break unless you REALLY mean it. When we argue, we'll say hurtful things that we doesnt mean it. It might feel great to scream and say 'i dont want to see you anymore' but he/she might take it seriously and give you exactly what you want.